School Refusal Response Toolkit

$37.00

When your child won’t (or can’t) go to school, this is your next move.

Morning meltdowns. Stomach aches. Tears in the car.
You’ve been told to “just make them go.”
But you know it’s not defiance it’s their nervous system waving a red flag.

This toolkit gives you:

  • Scripts & Letters that make schools listen

  • Root Cause Guides so you know what’s really driving refusal

  • Action Plans you can start today — without shame or power struggles

Stop spinning in fear and start leading with language and strategy that works

When your child won’t (or can’t) go to school, this is your next move.

Morning meltdowns. Stomach aches. Tears in the car.
You’ve been told to “just make them go.”
But you know it’s not defiance it’s their nervous system waving a red flag.

This toolkit gives you:

  • Scripts & Letters that make schools listen

  • Root Cause Guides so you know what’s really driving refusal

  • Action Plans you can start today — without shame or power struggles

Stop spinning in fear and start leading with language and strategy that works

This toolkit arms you with:
Scripts & Letters to stop schools from brushing you off and force a real response
Root Cause Guide so you can pinpoint what’s really going on (sensory, anxiety, EF overload, trauma, accommodations gap, etc.)
Parent Action Plans — what to do while you wait for school to act, how to track patterns, and how to regulate home stress
Accommodations Menu — what you can ask for (shortened day, mental health supports, staff changes, and more)
Parent Reminders — because you’re not crazy, you’re not making excuses, and your child is asking for help the only way they know how

You’ll walk away with clear, legally-informed steps, printable templates, and language that shifts the dynamic from “just get them in the door” to “the school has to respond.”

This isn’t fluff. It’s leverage.

If your mornings feel like a war zone, this toolkit will be the first calm breath you’ve taken in months.